Shopping for bridesmaid dresses can be one of the most exciting parts of wedding planning, bringing your bridal party together for a memorable experience.
A successful bridesmaid dress shopping trip requires careful planning, clear communication, and consideration for everyone’s preferences and budgets.
This quick guide will help you navigate the process smoothly, ensuring everyone feels comfortable and happy with their dresses.
Before the Shopping Trip
- Set a realistic budget that works for all bridesmaids
- Research local bridal boutiques and make appointments
- Create a mood board with style preferences
- Determine if you want matching or coordinating dresses
Scheduling Tips
Book appointments at least 6-8 months before the wedding to allow time for ordering and alterations.
Schedule shopping trips during off-peak hours (weekday mornings) for better service and attention.
| Timeline | Action Items |
|---|---|
| 8 months before | Initial shopping appointments |
| 6 months before | Place dress orders |
| 2-3 months before | Start alterations |
Making the Most of Appointments
- Bring appropriate undergarments and shoes
- Take photos of each dress option
- Keep detailed notes about prices and ordering information
- Consider seasonal factors for comfort
Budget-Friendly Options
Consider these alternatives to traditional bridal boutiques:
- Department stores (Nordstrom, Macy’s)
- Online retailers (BHLDN, Azazie)
- Rental services (Rent the Runway)
- Sample sales and trunk shows
Managing Different Body Types
Consider these flattering styles for various body shapes:
- A-line dresses suit most body types
- Empire waists work well for pear shapes
- V-necks flatter fuller busts
- Ruching helps camouflage problem areas
Color Coordination
Test dress colors in natural lighting to ensure they complement your wedding palette.
Consider ordering fabric swatches before making final decisions.
Making the Final Decision
- Get everyone’s measurements taken professionally
- Review return policies and alteration options
- Confirm delivery dates in writing
- Keep detailed records of orders and payments
Smart Shopping Success
Remember to celebrate this special moment with your bridesmaids while keeping the focus on finding dresses that make everyone feel beautiful and confident.
Consider creating a shared digital folder for keeping track of measurements, receipts, and alteration schedules.
Always get sizing and payment details in writing from the boutique or retailer to avoid any misunderstandings.
Alterations and Fittings
Professional alterations are crucial for achieving the perfect fit. Schedule multiple fittings to ensure all adjustments are done correctly.
- Book experienced seamstresses early
- Allow enough time for multiple fittings
- Budget for alteration costs
- Bring wedding shoes to each fitting
Accessorizing the Look
Coordinate accessories to complete the bridesmaid ensemble while maintaining individual style.
- Select complementary jewelry pieces
- Choose comfortable shoes that match the dress style
- Consider hair accessories that align with the wedding theme
- Plan for weather-appropriate cover-ups if needed
Day-of Dress Care
Pre-Wedding Preparation
- Steam or press dresses before the wedding
- Pack emergency dress repair kits
- Arrange proper transportation to avoid wrinkles
- Store dresses in garment bags until needed
Creating Lasting Memories Together
The bridesmaid dress shopping experience is more than just finding the perfect dress – it’s about strengthening bonds and creating cherished memories with your closest friends.
- Document the shopping journey with photos
- Plan celebratory moments during fittings
- Share the excitement of finding the perfect dresses
- Thank your bridesmaids for their time and support
FAQs
- When should bridesmaid dress shopping begin?
Start shopping 6-8 months before the wedding to allow time for ordering, shipping, and alterations. - Who pays for the bridesmaid dresses?
Traditionally, bridesmaids pay for their own dresses and alterations. The bride may choose to help if it fits her budget. - How do I coordinate different body types and preferences?
Consider choosing a color and fabric, then letting bridesmaids select different styles that flatter their figures. - What’s the typical price range for bridesmaid dresses?
Most bridesmaid dresses range from $100 to $300, with luxury options exceeding $400. - Should bridesmaids order a size up or down?
Order based on the largest measurement according to the size chart. It’s easier to alter a dress smaller than to let it out. - How many dress options should bridesmaids try on?
Have bridesmaids try 3-5 dresses to get a good sense of different styles and fits. - What’s the best way to coordinate long-distance bridesmaids?
Use online retailers that offer swatches, virtual showrooms, and at-home try-on programs. Share photos in a group chat. - When should final dress alterations be scheduled?
Schedule final alterations 6-8 weeks before the wedding, with the last fitting 1-2 weeks before. - How do I handle mismatched bridesmaid dresses successfully?
Choose a consistent element (color, length, or fabric) and provide clear guidelines for acceptable variations. - What are the best fabrics for different seasons?
Choose chiffon or cotton for summer, velvet or heavy satin for winter, and mid-weight fabrics like crepe for spring/fall.
